October 27, 2009, at 11:22 pm | The weekly children’s story hour I attend with the girls held a costume party today. The girls were thrilled to wear the pumpkin outfits that their cousins used last year.
Susie (on right): “Did you know you have a pumpkin on your head?â€
Susie (on left): “Oh wait! I guess I do, too!â€
Becky (on left): “I think we make pretty cute pumpkins.â€
Susie (far right): “Hmm…how can I convince these other pumpkins to give me their candy?â€
Becky (in back): “I’m scared by all these witches and bees and dragons!â€
Susie (in front): “Beck, I’ll moon the dragon for you.â€
October 26, 2009, at 11:50 pm | One of the best parts of having an out-of-town guest (other than being able to spend lots of time with a dear friend, of course), is visiting local attractions that have previously gone unnoticed. Kristin, the girls and I traveled today up to Massachusetts to stroll through the picturesque towns, and I loved seeing everything through Kristin’s enthusiastic eyes. I’ve driven past Stockbridge, MA several times in the past, but never actually got out of the car. It was such a treat to explore the shops and historical sites and simply appreciate the scenery that normally zooms by my car window in a blur.
The girls were happy to be out in the beautiful weather and to be adored by new people. At one point, I had a crowd of three older ladies huddled around the stroller while Susie flashed impish smile after impish smile.
Becky thought the attention paid to her sister was rather underwhelming.
I can’t thank Kristin enough for encouraging us to cherish this beautiful corner of the country!

October 25, 2009, at 9:04 pm | FYI – Cheerios always taste better when they’re eaten directly out of a car seat.

October 24, 2009, at 11:11 pm | We continued our whirlwind sight-seeing tour of the Northeast and spent this afternoon visiting one of Connecticut’s major tourist attractions, the Mark Twain House. In retrospect, it probably wasn’t the wisest choice of spots for us to take two squirmy toddlers, what with all the breakable, valuable, historical antiques within a tiny person’s reach. But the torrential rain had limited our options, and I thought I might as well start early in inspiring a love of all things by Samuel Clemens in my girls. I guess I probably should have waited until they could at least read.
But even though we had to leave the tour of the house early, and the girls’ loud protests shattered the studious aura of the visitor’s center, and we discarded little shoes around the building like bread crumbs, I was actually very glad we made the trip. I have wanted to see the Mark Twain house ever since I did my state report on Connecticut in the fifth grade. I remember using my colored pencils to painstakingly draw a picture of the dark red eaves of the mansion, and now I’ve seen the gorgeous architecture for myself.
I can also rest assured knowing that I’ve done my due diligence in beginning the girls’ well-rounded English education. Perhaps next year we can take a trip to Prince Edward Island so the girls can appreciate my love for Anne of Green Gables. I guess I’d rather have the girls learning about the beauty of the “Lake of Shining Waters†than learning how to trick others into whitewashing a picket fence!
October 23, 2009, at 10:24 pm | I know all you faithful blog readers visit this site to see pictures of Becky and Susie, but since I was away from them yesterday, I don’t have any pictures to post other than the ones of my wonderful trip to NYC with Kristin. I hope you don’t mind! Besides, the girls were in my thoughts during the whole day, so they were practically there with me. Kind of. But anyway, the girls were happy as clams to spend the day with my in-laws. I got to stroll the streets of New York, and they got to dance to Barney songs. We were all quite happy!

October 22, 2009, at 10:00 pm | Kristin and I are sight-seeing in New York City today while the girls are lovingly cared for by their grandparents, so instead of posting pictures from today’s twin antics, I’ll leave you with a video I took of them yesterday. Here are the girls practicing their “fishy†faces. You’ll see that Susie (in back) uses the open-mouth technique, and Becky goes for the gusto with the smooshed lips pout. Perhaps they’re imitating two different species of fish?
October 21, 2009, at 10:23 pm | My friend Kristin flew in last night from Washington State to spend a week with us, and we decided to start off her visit with a trip to a New England orchard.
We bundled up and headed out to the pumpkin patch in the hopes of finding the perfect pumpkin.

“Look, Mom! I found a big pumpkin!â€
The kids were very good at inspecting the grass.
Susie decided the grass wasn’t worth eating.
But she thought the pumpkins looked mighty appetizing.
They took a little wagon ride.
But they decided it wasn’t as exciting as a Ranger ride with Dad.
Susie preferred to hang out with Kristin.
While Becky enjoyed hanging out with the pumpkins.
Susie eventually got adventurous and set off on a pumpkin chase.
The girls bid the pumpkins farewell. What a fun afternoon!
October 20, 2009, at 11:19 pm | Who would have thought it was possible to get whiplash in one’s own kitchen. I was busy preparing the girls’ dinner when I heard a tell-tale thud – the sound of a cabinet door closing. Which meant that it was previously open. And because I know that I didn’t leave it open, that mean that a little someone had opened it, and then closed it. So I turned around and saw Becky at one end of the kitchen and Susie opposite her, both slowly and cautiously opening the cabinet doors and reaching inside. I wasn’t sure which way to leap first, so I shouted “No! Girls!†and Becky slammed the door shut (I’m thankful that at least one of my children has a guilty conscience) and ran in Susie’s direction, successfully preventing her from emptying the contents of the drawer. But by then, Becky had shaken off her guilt and succumbed to her curiosity, once again peeking inside the cabinet. I crossed the kitchen in a single bound (it’s not a big kitchen, but it is large enough that I can’t reach both sides at once) and rescued the pots and pans, just in time to hear Susie pulling open the towel drawer behind me.
I was panting by this point, and dinner still had to be made. So I did what any self-respecting mom of twins would do: I kept yelling “No!†at the top of my lungs while attempting to keep nearby cabinet doors shut with my knees, feet, and spare hand while I hurriedly stuck leftovers in the microwave. I then strapped the kids into their high chairs, stuck lukewarm noodles in front of them, and plunked my flustered self down into a chair.
I think I need a better system. But I’m philosophically opposed to baby-proofing everything, since it doesn’t teach kids how to listen and obey. Check back next week to see if I’ve watered down my philosophy for the sake of my sanity.

October 19, 2009, at 10:29 pm | Now, I’m probably being premature in declaring this, but I just had to report that the girls hit a bit of a social milestone today: they shared with each other. They were both sitting on my lap this afternoon (that’s amazing in and of itself, since Becky usually can’t stand sharing my lap with her sister, or even sharing the same time zone if I’m in it), and Becky reached for the toy that Susie was holding. I moved Becky’s hand away and told her that she should ask her sister if she could “please†have it, instead of just taking it. I expected this to be one of the umpteen-millionth times a day that I say things that are too advanced for their age, in the hopes that one day one of those hard-working brain synapses will fire up and make the connection. Well, today, Becky’s brain lit up and she made the sign for please (that is, she clapped – it’s the only piece of sign language she knows, and it actually bears no resemblance to the true sign, but I’m giving her a little leeway here). She held out her hands, and lo and behold, another miracle occurred: Susie released her death grip on the toy and put it into Becky’s expectant palms. You have to understand that this was about as likely as Susie reciting Shakespeare in Greek. Once Susie latches onto a plaything, you need a crowbar to pry it out. And then you’d need earplugs to protect yourself from the inevitable screeching that would ensue. But today, not only did Becky ask politely for the toy, Susie politely gave it up. Simply incredible.
I suppose, in the interest of full disclosure, I should add that the instant the toy was in Becky’s hands, Susie had second thoughts and decided she wanted it back. So she took it. And then, of course, Becky wanted it back. So she took it. But they managed to pass the toy back and forth several times before anybody decided that sharing is much more fun when you’re solely on the receiving end. So the whole encounter did end with a whining, toy-wrenching fiasco…but it took us longer to get there than usual.
And that, my friends, is what I call progress.
(I failed to get a picture documenting the girls’ first – and hopefully not only – sharing episode, but I found this picture taken by my mom last week and thought it was a good representation of the girls’ sisterly-bonding time. They really do like each other, even if they drive each other bonkers. I think they intuitively understand that that’s what sisters are for – to love you and steal from you and then love you some more!).
October 18, 2009, at 11:34 pm | We had our last Children’s Meeting for this year at church tonight, and the girls weren’t quite as broken up about saying goodbye as they were last time a series of meetings ended. In fact, they were just excited that we let them play with the big kids after the meeting was over. Here are the girls with two of their “big kid†friends:
The girls weren’t even upset that they didn’t win any toys, since the other kids entertained them with the prizes they won. Becky played football with Tyree, and Chris wowed them with a flashlight and a harmonica performance. Between those fun times and the consumption of unlimited Cheerios, the girls think Children’s Meetings are great fun!
Of course, such excitement can be a bit wearying. Susie was so tired that she didn’t even wake up when we got home, a rarity for her. It looks like she was too exhausted to bring that last handful of Cheerios to her mouth. What a life!

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ABOUT US I'm blessed to be saved by the grace of God, loved by my wonderful husband Jim, and embraced by my twin girls, Rebecca Faith and Susanna Joy and my sons Jimmy and Danny. I started this blog in May 2008 when I was hospitalized for pre-term labor at 24 weeks gestation. The Lord allowed me to keep the girls inside until they were 34 weeks along, and on July 27th, Rebecca made her debut, followed by Susanna, five minutes later, on July 28th. We ecstatically welcomed Jimmy into our lives on April 25th, 2011, and Danny on August 31, 2012. This blog has been a personal journal of faith and motherhood and the only way I can remember which child did what and when. Thanks for stopping by to share in my Faith and Joy! Feel free to e-mail me at: [email protected].
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